We all know the cliche, “Nice guys finish last,” but what about us? Do nice girls finish way after nice guys?
Think about it. There’s books dedicated to men loving witches with a capital B. When women are apathetic, no-nonsense and could care less about what people think often serves as a challenge for men and we all know that men love challenges.
Nice women who are loyal, supportive and just want honesty and respect in return usually get the short end of the stick. Being nice means that you are people pleasing, especially in relationships. There’s nothing more suffocating then people pleasing in relationships. Nice girls are always agreeable to dropping their lives, making time where they really don’t have it, acquiesce and try to be as convenient and easy as possible. All of these niceties comes off as being needy.
If you’re too available, too attentive, too sweet, you won’t be taken seriously. Which is crazy, we all want someone who makes time for us and treats us with respect and kindness. So do you have to be an ass to find and keep love? No. You need to be more selective with my time, attention, and niceness. You cannot be eager to please, needy, overly-available or endlessly nice. To create a loving, respectful and grateful relationship, you have to know the rules of the game and play by them. To find out what those rules are, check out the video below.